Despite our best efforts at making Jace smile, Matt and I just can't do it alone. Hayden holds his own by adding comedy to most situations, but tonight when a few family friends came over, Jace and Hayden played and smiled more than we've seen all week.
We had a big day which began with our first, real public appearance as an entire family. Because the weather was so beautiful, we knew it would be good for Jace to get out into open air. We packed our chairs, umbrella for shade, some blankets, a cooler with water and Gatorade, and a few snacks (yes, I took macaroni and cheese this time.) Then we drove to attend a Grid Kid football game of our friends. When we arrived, Matt found a place away from the crowds and carried Jace to a comfortable chair by the end zone. As we sat down, our team scored right in front of us. Go Cats! It was a beautiful sight for Jace to see that all was right and well in the world. Though Jace and I only made it outside just past half-time, Jace was better for the outing, and we saw his spirits leap.
Jace also picked his own pumpkin out of Grandpa's garden, and pulled a few carrots. Tonight he made his own Tiger's Blood Snoshack and played Uno with friends. It warmed my heart to see him happy and revived. It also made me extra grateful for the combined efforts of everyone involved.
Many times in life I've thought the only way to do something right was to do it myself. (Ask Matt. He'll tell you all about it.:)) I now more than ever regret my pompous attitude and repent whole-heartedly. What I saw in my family today was the magic that was only created by the combination of several people. It wasn't just today either. Every day for the last two weeks, the special combinations of people who are touching our lives-- are therapy equal to the chemo Jace receives. I teach my students at school about the concept of synergy: 2+2=5...or combined efforts are greater than the sum of individual efforts. Today, like other days, the chemistry was right. We experienced synergy. Thank you all who are experiencing this with us, through our blog or otherwise, for being the right ingredients. We love you.
